Apr 28, 2024 16:45:23 GMT
Post by ππ₯ππ²ππ¨π² on Apr 28, 2024 16:45:23 GMT
personality notes
Core Desire: Strives to feel secure. "I want to be safe."
Fears: Danger itself.
Self Image: hm
At his best: I am loyal, I am prepared, I am compassionate, I am responsible.
At his worst: self-defeating, indecisive. provocative, bullish.
Do's:
-Be clear about expectations.
-Reassure me about our status.
-Be supportive
Don'ts:
-Change plans unexpectedly.
-Don't overreact when I overreact.
-Don't let me down.
Weakness: paranoid, apprehensive, over-thinking. what could go wrong? what will go wrong?
False Belief: When you are afraid you must act.
"Solution": Phobic-approach. Rejects weakness and vulnerability. Chases strength and independence. Values the institution because it enables his ability to protect the people he cares about (will even enforce it to those who undermine it). The more afraid he is the more he is compelled to act and find a solution. More prone to taking risks to overcompensate. "I can think my way out of this."
Fears: Danger itself.
Self Image: hm
At his best: I am loyal, I am prepared, I am compassionate, I am responsible.
At his worst: self-defeating, indecisive. provocative, bullish.
Do's:
-Be clear about expectations.
-Reassure me about our status.
-Be supportive
Don'ts:
-Change plans unexpectedly.
-Don't overreact when I overreact.
-Don't let me down.
Weakness: paranoid, apprehensive, over-thinking. what could go wrong? what will go wrong?
False Belief: When you are afraid you must act.
"Solution": Phobic-approach. Rejects weakness and vulnerability. Chases strength and independence. Values the institution because it enables his ability to protect the people he cares about (will even enforce it to those who undermine it). The more afraid he is the more he is compelled to act and find a solution. More prone to taking risks to overcompensate. "I can think my way out of this."
